Day by Day

I just arrived in Madison after a full day in the hospital and the drive home.  Here’s an update from today and some perspective on the road ahead…

The ultrasounds went pretty well.  Ruby and Madison continue to do really well.  Olivia was the same today as she was Saturday, which is a very good thing.  The doctors were encouraged to see that she hadn’t worsened.  Praise God.  Along with the good news today, we made a significant decision to take any surgical option off the table.  The main reasons are:  (1) we’re about to reach 24 weeks which automatically rules out one of the options and (2) even though we would be candidates for the laser procedure to separate the placenta’s of the twins, we fall into a small subset (we’re the 5th of over 500 cases of twins and the first with triplets) where the surgery hasn’t been effective.  It turns out that Olivia and Madison’s umbilical cords each insert into the shared placenta less than two centimeters apart.  The other procedures this group of doctors have done to separate the placenta in twins with the cord insertions so close have not been successful.  With the decision to not do any surgical intervention the choice we’ve made is expectant waiting.  What this means is ultrasounds M,W,F to be sure Olivia continues to hang in there.  If at any point she starts to struggle, Allison will have to go inpatient for monitoring or prepare to deliver.  At 24 weeks they all have a chance to live.  We hit 24 weeks this Wednesday.  At 28 weeks the chance goes up significantly.  Our prayer is to get to at least 30 weeks and get Allison home as soon as possible.  Obviously, we’d love for her to deliver here in Madison.  Each day is crucial and as days turn into weeks that they all stay in the womb, their chance to do well goes up.  We spent some time with the staff neonatologist as well today.  We got to look at some “26 weekers” in the NICU and interact with the nurses as well.  The doctor told us that each day in the womb means at least 3 less days in the NICU.  We’re glad we spent the time getting familiar with this area of the hospital and with the idea of possibly spending some time there.  We both feel like we need to be prepared for what could come our way but with that continue to believe God for the best.

That’s the medical update.  As Christians we choose to see this circumstance through the eyes of our faith (Hebrews 11:1), very similar to when we were trusting God to become pregnant in the first place.  Thank you for believing with us.  God is faithful and we thank Him for the lives He’s knitting together in Allison’s womb right now (Psalm 139:13,14).

4 Responses to “Day by Day”

  • Our prayers are with you all during these difficult times. Our God is a Father of Mercy and Love. I pray every day that I can put my trust in Him, who is my rock and my strength. His will be done, now and forever!

    We love you all and will continue to pray for you.

    Love,

    Adam, Carla, Dominic, & Jude Riopel

  • Thanks for the update Matt. We love you guys and will continue to pray for time
    and know that God is with you and Allison as this journey continues. Stay strong!
    Love, MK

  • Tim and Melissa Richholt:

    It’s great to see the progress through your words and expressions of faith. We continue to pray for you all, and have added your needs to our congregational prayer chain. We have such a great and loving God! He is with you always. We remember many years ago when Josh was quite sick from a brown recluse spider bite. It had not yet been diagnosed, and they decided to do surgery to investigate why he had a huge bulge in the crease of his upper leg. After the surgery, the doctor came through the swinging doors with the news. Well, folks. We don’t know what it is, but God does. Let’s pray for wisdom and knowledge to understand what He already knows. Having a doctor who depends on the Lord is very reassuring. You feel part of a divine team, with God at the Head.

    We love you all, and love that you decided to name one of the girls Ruby. We’re forwarding the blog address to our guys so they can be praying and keeping in touch.
    Love, uncle Tim and aunt Melissa

  • deborah lathrop:

    Dear Allison and Matt,

    Reading Matt’s accounts of what you are experiencing, learning, fearing, accomplishing during this very challenging time is a real gift you’ve given to those (like Paul and me) who are thinking of you so deeply and so often. As hard and tiring as this must be for you- it demonstrates how strong you two are as individuals, as a couple, and in faith, not to mention the how strong the wee ones are. We are all here for you.

    love,
    deborah (and paul)